When is Assisted Living Appropriate?

Dealing with aging parents is a sensitive subject. You never thought the time would come when you would be faced with making decisions for your parents. It can be heartbreaking to recognize that strong, self-sufficient parents are no longer capable of taking care of themselves. You may feel guilty and ashamed that you do not have the sufficient time it takes to care for them yourself.

You want the best for your loved one, but you ask yourself “what is best?”

The follow checklist may help you determine when it is time to take action. Answering “Yes” to more than a few questions below, should prompt you to consider seeking assistance in helping you understand the many options that are available to you and your loved one.

Do you have an elderly loved one who:

• Calls you several times a day for seemingly unimportant reasons.
• Is afraid of being alone.
• Has poor eating habits or is confused about when or what they have eaten.
• Is confused by phone calls or simple instructions.
• Forgets to take their medications or takes too many.
• Has had recent falls or difficulty ambulating.
• Refuses to go to a doctor but clearly needs medical attention.
• Refuses to take showers and does not change their underclothes.
• Can not take care of bills or finances.
• Seems depressed or wants to stay in bed.
• Will not give up driving but is in danger on the road.
• Refuses help in the home or yard but can not keep up things themselves.
• Acts normal and charming in front of others but is a different person when around you.
• Cannot be reasoned with when discussing their care needs.
• Has pushed you to feelings of resentment and guilt.

Taking action is the first step. The professional staff at Barton Creek Assisted Living may not have the answers to all of your concerns as a caregiver but we can offer our expertise and advise that may help you make correct decisions concerning your loved one.